Where do you want to be in life? It’s a question we often forget to ask ourselves as we struggle to keep up with the everyday demands of work, family, friends, life, hobbies, and so on.
But working in a job that doesn’t excite you is like cooking a meal you don’t like eating…every day. Over time the monotony can wear you down, and eventually it just makes you sick. It can also make your loved ones sick if they’re always seeing you unhappy, or you end up taking your frustrations out on them.
With many collective years of experience, we wholeheartedly believe being in the wrong career can negatively impact your personal wellbeing.
Finding work that you enjoy – that challenges you and makes you grow – is an important part of a healthy life. We’ve uncovered a few techniques to help you get there.
What is the “you” of today telling you?
Before we even finish high school, we’re bombarded with people urging us to make fast and permanent decisions about our career.
“Go to university”, “Study this”, “Get a job here”, “Join the family business”.
Whether we make the choices on our own or are influenced by others, we are definitely very very young when we make them. And what’s funny is that even though it may be 20 years or longer since you’ve finished school, you may still be listening to that younger version of yourself.
The current you may not like your choice at all. The current you may be bored, stretched to the limit, tired, depressed, or just thinking “Is this it?”.
If this is true for you, the first step to making a positive change is to take stock of who you are today, not who you were yesterday.
If you’re not sure what you enjoy, don’t be afraid to try new things. Without putting your financial situation in jeopardy, find out if you can “taste test” new career options (possibly in your current role, such as asking to take on new responsibilities or volunteering to be part of a project at work) that appeal to you, and it may lead you to discover your ideal path.
It doesn’t matter how old you are… you almost certainly have time to make a change. Research tells us that the average person changes careers 5-7 times in their working life. And even if you are 50 years old, the retirement age is not what it used to be. You may only be half way through your life and still 15-20 years from retirement, and consider how far you could go in a career you’re engaged in for 15 years!
Questions you may want to ask yourself include:
Your answers may not even align to a particular industry, but they will still give you an idea of what you should be doing to feel fulfilled.
Working backwards to your ideal career
No matter what goal you are working towards – you need to start with where you want to go, create a plan by working backwards, and then consistently put in the work over a significant period of time.
This means having a clear picture of the “end state”, and then asking yourself what activities you need to do (and when) to get there.
You will need to set a timeline with short/mid/long term goals, and have patience. It takes time to make positive change and you may not see results from your efforts straight away. But rest assured that every little change you make today has a bigger and better effect tomorrow.
You don’t get a six pack overnight, and you don’t build a new career overnight.
But if you know where you want to go, and create a practical map that plots the path to get there, every little step you take is a step in the right direction.
Anyone who has ever followed their heart and made a career jump will tell you it’s a journey filled with uncertainty and excitement.
International Women’s Day is about celebrating women’s achievements, raising awareness about gender inequality, and pushing for change. This year’s theme, #AccelerateAction, is a call to make things happen now, rather than waiting for gradual progress.
If you wanted to find a new role, which of these scenarios sounds better to you?…
As both an executive and a recruiter/friend to senior executives in a variety of industries, the highs and lows of leadership do not escape me.